Why Im here

Okay glow users,

whoever reads this, I apologize if its long and pointless, but im lost. im 22 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. its no doubt we love each other and we have talked about spending the rest of our lives together. we both work full time and life is great, but we arent in the career spot we want to be. we will get there but in time. is it bad that we dont care if we have a kid right now?