Herpes 😔

I went to the dr for discomfort down stairs about 2 years ago. My dr said she didn't see any bumps but I explained how it felt. She never did any test on me and just said it was herpes (even though I have asked for the test).  I brake out every 4 months but I only have 1 sore. Has anyone had this? Is it unusual that I don't get multiple? My dr isn't really helpful.Â