Where did it go?

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Does anyone else have trouble with low sex drive?

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Realizing infertility is here to stay kinda ruined it for me. I feel old and useless. I'm sure it'll come back but the excitement is gone

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I found that being on the pill really messed up my drive. When I came off it, suddenly all my 'special feelings' started returning.

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My depression has been killing it for me this past year. Struggling TTC has put a damper on it as well.

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I'm not sure why it posted this as anonymous. I guess I must've checked the box on accident. But idk what it is. I was on a different BC then, but it started dropping off while I was still on it. Its frustrating because it causes unnecessary stress and arguments in our relationship because he thinks its to do with him and always pulls the "are you just not attracted to me anymore" card because he's put on some weight since we got together. But its like I told him 1) I've gained a ton of weight too and 2) I didn't fall in love with him because of just his looks and I still think he is gorgeous. It frustrates me too BC I have discussed with him the fact that I have gained so much weight that it could be affecting my sex drive 1) because of the actual weight and 2) because I'm not happy with myself and I have practically begged him for us to go back to the strict dieting he was doing before he met me and for us to get in the gym; we have a gym membership and went religiously for 2 months and when we moved he started making excuses not to go, and every time we have a good meal plan for the week he either picks something up before I get off work, or he has something different cooked.

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Omg yes. We had srx once a day if not more and we have only had sex once since I became prego. Ugh

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yes, babies did it to me.  I know they are awful, but romance novels really helped me.

Where did it go?

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