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Do you care if DH has a beer? Has a joint? (I live in Colorado) Or eats food that you can't have.

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The only time I get a little irritated is when my husband drinks and wants to get frisky. It's just not as much fun when one party is buzzed and the other stone cold sober. Otherwise it doesn't bother me, he has one drink on a weekend, we don't smoke, and we both eat healthy ish. :-)

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I don't drink anyway, so it's no different than usual around here! Actually my husband is on weight watchers, so I'm more worried about him being jealous when I eat stuff I'm craving!

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I live in Colorado. Husband is a home brewer and we are both avid craft beer lovers. He will probably cut down a little because it's less fun drinking alone but I definitely don't care. We don't smoke pot so I'm not sure how I would feel about that.

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Beer I don't mind just as lo g as hr doesn't get hammered leaving me to deal with him.  pot no cuz he's not a smoker and could lose his job, and cigarettes, he's trying but having a tuff time of it. I haven't had one since before I found out, but least he doesn't do it at home or with me, I can never smell it or anything.

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I personally could care less if my husband drinks. Neither of us drank a lot before. Would enjoy a glass of wine or beer at dinner. He doesn't smoke, but when him and his buddies get together they enjoy a cigar sometimes. I'm fine with that just don't like being kissed after. Can't stand the smell. I don't see why I would put him through giving up something he wants when he waits on me hand and foot already with my random cravings. I wanted Taco Bell at 9:30 at night so off to Taco Bell we went. I wanted McDonald's for lunch so he goes and brings it back for me.

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I live in Colorado also! I'm due March 4th with baby number 2. My husband doesn't smoke weed or cigarettes, but he does drink. I wasn't much of a drinker before the pregnancy so maybe that's why it doesn't bother me. I just call myself his DD for the next seven to eight months.

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My husband and I neither drank or smoked prior to pregnancy, so no habits needed to change.

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