Well. It's 2am and my SO brings up a car part he wants to get that's over $200. He's really into cars and wants to do "race car" things to his car. A little bit of back story: I recently stopped working until after the baby is born. Finances will be tight but he assured me we will be fine and he will make enough to pay our bills until I go back to work. There is still so much that needs to be done before the baby gets here. We still need a lot more clothes, car seat, stroller, bedding, bath stuff, bottles and pumps, it's overwhelming! So, when he starts talking about spending money on things like car parts it frustrates me! Now I knew money would be tight when I left work and I knew we would be relying on his money alone. I don't want to sound like he has to give up the things he wants so I didn't tell him how I felt but he kept pushing it so all I said was "well it's your money so if that's what you want to do, as long as the bills are paid go for it" apparently that was mean and fucked up. So lose lose situation. I just feel like he should prioritize the money better than on car parts, oh and the headlights don't work and the rear tint makes it impossible to see out of at night but does he want to fix that? No. Well I better get use the a life of being the bad guy