Hey ladies! So I'm getting married at the beginning of next year and I've done all kinds of research on BC but I've also heard sooo many different options from married friends of mine. One uses condoms which my fiancé would prefer not to use and I don't want it to be difficult for him the first time so I'm trying to find a solution. I really liked the idea of patches because theyre simple and i would remember them, but ive heard issues about blood clots. What did you all do for yourselves and what did you like best? We are each other's first so I'm totally new to all this haha