How would you ladies feel if your BFF said she would throw your shower for you then 30 days before tell you oh the place I picked is too much so I can only do decorations can you provide food drinks and cake?? Now I am having to find a new venue, pick a cake, get fruit and veggie platters and change the time of my shower because now she can't do it... Does that mean I am hosting my own shower or what lol idk what to think and my husband is not happy!!!