Am I overreacting?
Okay, so my husbands aunt is known for having a big mouth. She always spills people's secrets. So, when I found out we were expecting, I specifically asked my husband not to tell her until we were ready to announce it to the public.
Well, they're super close, so he was on the phone with her, and got a little excited and told her. I said that's fine, because I figured he'd tell her anyway. I just told him to make sure that she knew we were going be keeping it a secret for quite some time (until I was out of my first trimeste).
Fast forward two weeks. I'm 6 weeks pregnant, and I hydroplaned. I totaled my car, and the back of my car was literally crushed into my back seat. I was okay, really shook up and a concussion but that's all. I requested that they check on the baby, so I got my first ultrasound. They didn't find a heart beat. They said that 6 weeks is sometimes too early to see a heartbeat, so not to worry unless I'm cramping and bleeding. (I kept taking pregnancy tests and they're all still very positive).
His aunt never checked on me or the baby. She never called him or texted to see how we were doing. She didn't know that they didn't find a heartbeat. So she posted a video titled "Share this with someone whose expecting a baby" to my Facebook wall. She commented on it "Just for you".
When I saw it, I deleted it. But there were already people who had saw it. So, I announced our pregnancy a few days later, before the rumors really got started. But I am FURIOUS. I told my husband that she took something away from me that was special, and that I'll never get back (announcing our first pregnant before me). There was still people in my family that I hadn't told.
My MIL (her sister) said that she probably just forgot. My husband said I'm overreacting.
Am I?
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