Non-belly mommies and mommas

Mariel • non-carrier cafesita-mami
Hi y'all! 
My name is Mariel and my beautiful pregnant wife is Viviana. It took us over a year of trying to finally make our little bug - we went through 7 <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> (she did 4, I did 3) with two different sperm banks, and she did 4 at home cycles with 2 different known donors. We tried accupuncture, special diets, spiritual counseling, spiritual repaterning, caring too much, caring too little and the one cycle that finally broke through was the one we least expected. 
I could go on forever about our experience but I just wanted to introduce myself and start a thread for us non-belly mommies and mommas to share our experiences through the process.