Ladies, what do y'all think?
Before my baby's dad & I split up, I reconnected with an old friend. Knew him for years. Umm, he met me up like twice because he wanted to "talk & catch up". During this time, he said good things. Gave me great advice on co parenting & all that. It got to the point where he believed that he was capable of making me happy. He asked me to give him a chance. I honestly didn't take it seriously. Time went by, My daughter's dad left the house, & this guy (old friend) was still in the picture. He was a great supporter. I can truthfully say he gave me the courage to put an end to the "relationship" with my B D. I found comfort. I, for once, believed I could be truly happy. Ok so about a month and a half goes by. He starts acting weird. He texts me & stops. Then I would initiate a convo & he would ignore me. It was a cycle. We suffered a loss in the family. He gave me some "space" to mourn my uncles death. Texts me outta no where (after a few days) & tells me that he hopes I'm doing well. As if he was dropping in to make sure I was still okay with him. After that I don't hear from him. Days go by. I see him at his work (which I'm interning at) he doesn't acknowledge me (just smirks) then one day (last week) he asks two of my classmates how I was doing. Let's my classmates know he was looking for me. At this point I'm so confused because he had been absent for so long, I didn't know what to think of it. I know that was his way of being okay with me again. Because as I was leaving that day, I noticed he had parked his truck next to my car. I'm assuming it was all for me to see that he noticed me & for me to be like "oh hey there's his truck". Texted him when I got home. No reply. Saw him again on Monday & nothing. No hi, no nothing. Just a stupid ass smirk. Now yesterday was when it got ugly. I had gotten home from running errands & I got on I G. As I'm scrolling down my newsfeed, there he was. A pic of him & a girl...kissing. His "gf" or whatever she is posted a pic of them together. My heart dropped to my ass. Instantly I fucken flipped. I texted him & told him nasty ass stuff. Mean stuff. Told him he was a coward & that he was a fucken liar. Told him "fuck you". Everything! I think what upset me most was the fact that he handled things this way. He didn't have courage to tell me about this girl directly. I had given him many opportunities to do so. I'm so disappointed. Long story, I know.
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