The other day my husband admitted to me that 3 years ago (before we got engaged) that he had signed up for the site and was on it for 2 weeks before having a change of heart and shut it down.

I also found out a purse he had bought me was actually purchased around that time because he felt guilty!

He wasn't planning on telling me until this leak and he panicked that I would somehow find out so he fessed up.

I feel so numb, I kept waiting for him to tell me it was a joke.

I don't want a divorce, I want to work through it. He didn't physically meet anyone but he had sexual conversations with one and they exchanged pictures.

I think I've emotionally shut down. I cried a lot yesterday and today I'm irritable but I'm also pmsing. I just need to get that off my chest until my therapy session next week. :-/