So we were discussing baby showers at work and I'm doing mine the 25th of October I'll be almost 30 weeks then and want to get out of the way before the holidays and I'm throwing my own shower uncommon yes but never unheard of n they were making a big deal our of it like how come your friends or mom or in laws or hubby's sisters aren't doing it you shouldn't be doing it yourself why have one and your doing it to early. First why do u care is it your money are you going to throw me a shower no exactly so f off and they were saying that since I live with my in laws and there nor throwing me a shower that means they don't like me I'm just so pissed