I do not like being touched by people I don't know. I'm even uncomfortable just giving hugs to distant family members. Needless to say I've never been one for massages or facials or pedicures. At work every once in a while they will bring in a massage lady to give 10 minutes sessions, I always politely decline.

So it's my birthday this weekend. Husband asked what I wanted a few days ago. I said no more jewelry, but tires would be great. I know it's not romantic or anything but I need them, I'd rather not have to pay for them myself. It would be a major worry off my mind.

He gets me a gift card to a spa. A SPA!!! He knows I don't like massages. So now I have this damn certificate that I really dont see myself using. They don't do hair there just massages, facials, wraps, and waxing.... no thank you on any of it. What the hell am I supposed to do with this thing.