Bordeaux butt paste

Jayne • Hi I`m Jayne! A wife of 7 years and mom of two gorgeous girls 3.5 and 1.5. We are `working` on our third and final baby.
I was told by another cd mom that it was ok to use. She uses the red top. I stopped using it because it was on many 'no' lists and switched to coconut oil. CO works really well but sometimes I want something thicker.