So i decided to stop trying and pushing to have a baby for 2 weeks now because my bf mother is in the hospital dying of cancer....they are giving her anywhere from 10 mins to 10 days left....I know he wants to be there for his mom so I backed off and we talk any day and I'm going to go to him this weekend because I'm off Fri to sun and he doesn't want to leave his mom's side... my heart melted today when he called me, he was crying and then he said to me that he wants this baby so bad because life is to short and then he ask me if I would mine if it is a girl to name her Joan after his mother.....