Is it selfish to ask for a back and feet rub?

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I'm a stay at home mom. I clean and cook and take my daughter to school I feel like I'm up all day . So even though I don't have a job I feel like I work to and at the end of the night my feet hurt and my back... I want to ask him to rub me but then I dont want to bother since he works hard everyday... What do you lady's think ?

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Not selfish at all! He's your husband and you're carrying his child, he should be doing whatever you ask to make you more comfortable

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I ask every now and then when I really need it. Sometimes I'm lucky enough I don't even have to ask.

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Being a stay home mom/wife is just as much as a full time job anywhere else! Taking care of your daughter, your SO, your home, and being pregnant is more than a full time job in my opinion. It's okay to ask for pampering! Go for it :)

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I'm a stay at home mom of two boy and a girl on the way. I ask about once a week if he will rub my back. if I stick my feet out of the blanket he laughs and rubs them

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I don't demand it but I do request a back and foot rub occasionally. I'm a SAHM too.

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First I would give him one then ask for one in return. It's not selfish.

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If I say it hurts, he will do it without me even asking :) he says I rub my back in my sleep sometimes, so he massages it then too, and I stop

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No its not my husband give me feet rubs all the time . But I also give him them to . It's give and take.

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Damn if you feel selfish asking seldomly I'm terrible. I ask just about every day for my husband to rub some part of me. He's better at foot rubs so I ask him to do those the most. But normally just has me put my feet on his lap and he ends up rubbing them on his own. I think it's fine :)

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I ask my partner for a rub every few days usually he offers but if he hasn't IL ask no hesitation he knows growing a baby's tough plus I think he's greatful I'm so happy after and not moody 😊

Is it selfish to ask for a back and feet rub?

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