Lesbians TTC

Hello there! I'm so excited to have found this group and just wanted to say hello. My wife and I have been married for a year and are in the process of finding an anonymous donor. We will be trying for #1 at home with the Seminette. Anyone else used this? It's all such a strange and expensive process! Also I'm annoyed with the heteronormativity of the glow app but it is helpful for keeping track of everything.