Hate Giving Blow Jobs?

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Does anybody else really not enjoy giving blow jobs? I love my DH, but I hate giving oral. I hate semen, I don't like having something shoved in my mouth and throat, and I feel terrible for it! He loves going down on me, but I feel like it isn't fair. I just don't know what to do to get myself in a space where I can enjoy, or even tolerate, doing it!

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I told my boyfriend at the time, husband now that I do not give blow jobs (because I know I don't like them) and I didn't give him one until we got married, I've given him two in the entire year and a half together and he's really good to me. So I think you just have to find a man who respects how you feel.

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try throat numbing spray. You can get it at any adult shop or website. I personally like watermelon the best. I enjoy giving my husband head so i dont have much else for advice.

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I rather enjoy it actually... I like being able to give my guy pleasure. My man thoroughly enjoys going down on me as well. I also don't really have a gag reflex. So that makes things much easier.

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I hate it too. I love my boyfriend and I want to do it so bad but I gag so easily, cum makes me sick and just the whole motion of doing it makes me want to throw up. I still haven't found a way to enjoy it and not feel sick to my stomach when I do. ):

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I kinda do it, but I kinda don't. I have a very bad gag reflex, and some things that happened back in the day. I don't like semen in my mouth at all >.< it makes me gag; and I definitely can't swallow it. Bleghhhh.

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Girl I feel you on this!! I feel so bad cause I know he wants it so bad. I ordered flavored lube off of Amazon the other day and we tried it for the first time yesterday and I actually enjoyed it. The flavors were really good and it was something new so I didn't mind doing it. Maybe try that!!

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I'm the same way! I love when he goes down on me, but hate shoving his penis in my mouth. I haven't told him yet, but he knows I don't do it often.

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Same here. My bf knows. But it Doesn't make me feel any better that he actually loves and craves eating me out. He doesn't pressure me tho and he really enjoys other sex acts with me. There's so much more to sex so try to focus on the other stuff.

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I seriously can't stand it. It's not enjoyable for me and it sucks because my boyfriend takes A MILLION YEARS to cum, at least 20-30 minutes. I've been told plenty of times by him and other exes that I'm pretty damn good at it, but I don't like it. However, I've found that music helps. If I turn in my favorite playlist it really makes it a lot easier because it's a distraction. I can sing along in my head and it takes the unease away. Something else to focus on while he's still enjoying everything. :)

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Same. But for for very very personal reasons that left me scarred.

But every now and then the mood strikes and I really wanna do that for him. I do it, I just can't go long enough to get him to finish.

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