Hello I'm 26 and have been dating my now husband 7 years. We recently secretly got married and haven't told any of our families because we're supposed to have a traditional wedding this October on the 24th. We have been talking about having kids together since before we got married. We agreed to at least wait until we were married to try and have a family. I think the only reason we are still waiting is because doesn't know we are married and we don't want them questioning us that we should've waited until October. Although he throws me alot of mixed signals because we talk about how we would like kids, can't wait to start having kids and he wants them. He always acts like he is ready to start now but then we dont try. It had become even more challenging each time this comes up or he gets that way. I've tried talking to him and getting his thoughts on things but feel like i don't anywhere with him. I always mention to him I'm waiting on him because he knows I'm ready and want kids majorly. I'm not trying to scare him because i know he wants kids but we are going anywhere with it anytime soon it looks like. Any advice is great fully appreciated. Thank you