Anyone else have problems with mom or mother in law being too pushy?

Megan • Miscarried from first pregnancy 9-16-15. Hoping to try for a miracle baby soon👶💕
I love my mom I really do... I'm the first out of my sister and I to be pregnant and my mom is really excited but it's getting in the way.. She wants to be there for some of my ultrasound appointments.. My husband is very supportive and able to go to everything with me so it's not like I'm alone in this. I told her no that I don't want her there for my first ultrasound.. But my husband doesn't want her there for any of them.. This is our time and our baby, not hers! Is it normal to feel this way? A part of me feels guilty and pressured to let her come to an appointment.... Only out of guilt