Baby showers & accidental pregnancies

Heather
Well I'm hosting yet another baby shower today while I am TTC! I always get sucked into throwing these elebroate showers for friends and family because everyone knows I am a good planner and want the best of the best. 
The worst part of it all is so many of my friends and family who have recently deleveried a bundle of joy or announced a pregnancy are "unplanned." It was an accident or bad timing (not married, no $, etc). 
My husband and I are on cycle 5 TTC and have done everything right. Got married, bought a house, have a cushy savings account and no luck! It's just not fair! 
Rant over!!! Thanks for listening! 😢😐😕