How Bad Does Anal Hurt?

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My boyfriend has expressed interest (a lot of interest) in this. I am terrified of how badly it will hurt, but I told him I would at least try it once... eventually. I was wanting to see if you could help mentally prepare me for this experience. And while you are here, he's also asked about playing with my butthole? How are y'alls feeling on that? Thanks, Ladies!

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As long as my hubby puts in the work to get me relaxed and used plenty of lube I like natural stuff like almond oil or coconut oil it doesn't hurt it feels good to me

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I'm a bit of a freak I suppose. I actually love it.

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Love it if he takes his time and we use plenty of lubricant.

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tried it once, NEVER AGAIN. That was the worst experience I've ever had.

I cried and everything. My husband felt so bad. Hahahahah

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Relax is a big thing too. If you don't relax and your tense it will hurt the more relaxed you are the smoother it goes.  Also follow the advice of lube, lube helps things glide.

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It honestly didn't hurt me that badly but the sensation wasn't nice. It felt like I just wanted to push out a big poop. Use lots of lube and use the rule of thirds (have him go in 1/3 at a time, slowly)

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I say work up to it. It isn't for everyone I have friends who love it n have friends who hate it and some won't try it. I tried for a while with my husband but it's not for me. But you won't know til you try it just saying

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It didn't hurt for me, first or any time. We went slow, lots of communication and lube, and I took the internet's advice and had him give me a few vaginal orgasms to relax and excite me before we transitioned to anal. Now I ask him for it 😊 It's not enough pleasure to bring me to orgasm on its own, so I use a vibrator while we do it.

The only thing that really felt uncomfortable was when I started bearing down when I was feeling pleasure. I have strong Kegel muscles, and am used to bearing down when receiving vaginal pleasure, but it felt very uncomfortable (almost but not quite painful) doing that with anal, so I had to work on relaxing into the pleasure instead.

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I've tried it. Hated it. Letting my boyfriend play with it, isnt bad though. Doesn't bother me!

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I ABSOLUTELY love it. We do it everytime we have sex.

How Bad Does Anal Hurt?

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