Husband&&the strip club 😡

Last night was my brother in laws big 2-1! His sisters and my husband wanted to take him out and then this weekend we are going to really celebrate. I stayed home with my toddler and let all the siblings and have fun. Well this morning my sil came over and we were talking about last night and she mentioned that the boys were going to the strip club when his sisters left. No big deal! I've told my husband many times its no biggie and I don't care if he goes because it is natural for humans to want to look at the opposite sex. But the thing is, I asked him where he went when he got home last night and he said just to a couple bars. He didn't mention that they went to the strip club and I'm fuckin pissed. Like I want to call him and tell him don't bother coming home, just go stay with your lady friends at the strip club. This isn't the first time he has lied about it either. A few months back he went to a town a few hours away for work with a hunch of other guys and they stayed a few nights. He told me one of the guys wanted to go to the strip club but he said he couldn't because he didn't want me mad. Well a week ago he slipped up and told me they had actually gone when he was out of town. I was so furious because all I want is 100% honestly. I've made it perfectly clear I don't mind him going, hell I even said I would go with him for shits and giggles! But if you decide to go alone, just tell me. You don't have to call and say do you mind? Just go! And when you get back tell me about it. I'm not concerned he would cheat on me, I just don't appreciate the fact he lied or even feels the need to lie when I've made my feelings clear. He will be home in a few hours and by then I don't know if I will have calmed down enough to speak with him like an adult or if my bat shit crazy lady will come out to freak the hell out on him so any encouraging words or advise is wanted. Don't say to hit him with a baseball bat, the thought has already crossed my mind and to be honest, I already looked for a bat and don't have one 😑