I lost my soulmate in September

Over the weekend my heart was ripped into peices  and then burned. My amazing boyfriend over the weekend told me that he was no longer in love with me.😓 We were together for three years working towards blending our families and getting ready to move in with each other. Two weeks prior we were just in Miami for my birthday weekend. His reason was that he was unsure if he wanted to be in a relationship with a women that has children from a previous marriage and he felt he should have bonded with them in 3 years and he simply just said he was no longer in love with me but still loves me. He never communicated any of this to me since we were together even when would ask him if everything is ok in our relationship! I told him it takes time for everyone to get use to each other and how can you bond with someone that you simply don't want to spend time with or even ask too.I offered several suggestions for us to make it work after I explain that he was the love of my life but then I thought about it I have no ring on my finger from him and why try to make