BROTHER IN LAW RANT

DHs brother feels like we owe him something. He is constantly telling us to go out of our way to help them. And I mean telling. No please. No questions ever formed. It really frustrates me because I end up doing most of the work. Whether it's picking the girls up from school, babysitting, or driving one of them to work (both work 40 minutes from where I live) and watching their 3 kids until the other gets off to come home. They do offer gas money every once in a while, but it's so frustrating to never hear a please or thank you! My husband gets everything from him,even if I'm the one doing the work and using my own car

ANYWAYS I'm just super frustrated right now because I work tomorrow and am waiting until 1am for him to come home so I can drive the 15 minutes back to my house to sleep.