Long story short had baby right after high school. Married alcoholic father. I left she was 2.

FF 7 years. He got sick of the shit where he lives. I now have 9 year old. He wants to be a part of our lives. Which I think is great! I would never tell him NO! I'm remarried 3 years have 2 year old with hubby. Ex says I was his first. I told not happing he says I will show. I want to court you, even though your married and it could take years but I'll show you. I was honest said there will always be something there for him. That hasn't changed. I told I expect him to respect Josh and his role as step dad. He said yes and he wants to meet Brynn. I told I don't trust him him around my baby. He said he wants to be apart of both girls life. S o flat out said Aside from what we were you want a married woman to reconsider her marriage. Yes was the answer. At the end of conversation baby started taking of my rings and told her don't do that. He says I plan on it. O boy. I have have no intention to change my path with Josh. I told him that. I will not cheat on my husband. Yes it sounds like I could be setting myself up for failure. No rude comments please!!!!