Does anyone else experience this? I'm terrified to sleep because of it. How do You deal with it if so?

For the people that dont know this is what happens in my experience. One night I went to sleep with My husband on my right side and my son was sleeping in his baby bed on the left of me. When suddenly my eyes opened (I was still asleep but I felt as if I was awake) I seen my son and husband in the exact way they went to sleep. And there was strange people all around us they where like a black and White picture. They just stood there watching us. They didn't talk move just watched us. I couldn't move talk or scream. When I finally woke up I was horrified and screaming and my husband thought it was a bad dream (which it was) but it has happened a number of times. Once i feel asleep on the couch beside my window and there was a man walking down my drive way with a flash light and I couldn't move or talk. When I woke up nothing was there but my chest hurt like I had been sit on by a 200 pound person. It started when I was 14 and Its making me go crazy. I know some people are going to say Im stupid or crazy but until you experience it dont judge me.