Okay so I have a question, I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we have pretty good sex, but I just can't orgasm! I masturbate and have given myself orgasms but I can't get them through intercourse, my poor boyfriend tries but sometimes when I feel so close I get self conscious and it honestly feels like I am just gonna pee and stop myself. He said that's how it should feel (previous girlfriends told him) but I don't know and if something like that happened, I'm really self concious and would be so embarrassed. And yes I bring a vibrator to bed to help. Any tips?!