ALL THE TIME!!!!

I'm 28 years old and my husband is 35, Ive only been one other guy besides him, that was my first. I didn't have sex with my husband until we were a year into a relationship and our sex life was great, 10 years later and I get sex maybe twice a Month and I'm extremely frustrated to point I mastabate daily, can't wait for him to go to work so, I can mastabate and when we do have sex it's mostly oral little to no dick involved. not only that I was looking in his phone just to see if someone else is getting the dick and sure enough it's loaded with pornographic shit, excuse my language I'm horny as hell Now and he's playing a game any Suggestions!

HELP PLEASE!

Your horny friend !