Am I not ready?

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I'm 17 now and most of my friends have done stuff with guys but I still haven't done anything apart from kiss. I defiantly am ok with doing sexual stuff, but as soon as I have the chance I get so scared and try to avoid it 😖 theres been plenty of opportunities but I've just felt too scared and almost felt sick, honesty am I really weird or is this normal

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Thanks guys that's actually really helped ❤️

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I think if you're this uncomfortable it's a great idea to just do something with someone you're comfortable with. Just taking an opportunity when it comes up could lead to regrets, if you're with someone you feel safe and not embarrassed with you will have minimal issues. There will always be nerves to a degree, though

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It could just be nerves, don't force yourself, give yourself plenty of time! When you want to, you will! You have your whol life hard if you do do this kind of thing, no need to rush:)xxx

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You're so normal. You will know when it's right and who it's right with, purely because you will really want it and nothing will stop you. I really recommend doing sexual things with someone you actually have something with, for so many reasons being it feels so much better when you have feelings for someone and them for you. You don't feel embarrassed about things, there's trust, there's communication with ease, it's just a whole difference and better board game. Do not do anything until you're ready. Having said all this some girls can sleep with whoever and have a great time and be care free, it's really personal preference! Hope this helped!

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Your fine take thing at your own pace you will get there

Am I not ready?

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