Is it unreasonable to expect a partner to stop smoking because you don't like it?

Question

I recently got with a new partner (having come out of an 8 year relationship). My new partner smokes. I've never been with a smoker before, I want him to stop because it's unhealthy for him, unhealthy for me and it's simply expensive and disgusting. It worries me about the effect it has on his health, but he thinks this is unreasonable? Thoughts!!!!

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If you don't want him to smoke then tell him. I wouldn't in my opinion. But if he loves you enough he would give it up, it's only doing him harm anyway. Just give him time to think it through and try give up because it can take a long time.

That's just my opinion though

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That's a pet peeve for me I can't date anyone that smokes but if they do its not  around me and they have to shower before they come near me. But that's just to much so I usually avoid all smokers. But no it's not bad for you to ask him to stop.

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It's unreasonable to expect that as soon as you guys get together but your concerns aren't unreasonable. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.

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That's not fair if he smoked when you got with him. Accept people as they are or move along.

Is it unreasonable to expect a partner to stop smoking because you don't like it?

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