So 3 weeks ago my husband and I found out not only was our baby healthy but also that we were having a girl! We had a gender reveal party ready to go for later in the evening and it was killing me not to know! I COULDN'T WAIT!So we had close family and friends at this party and I had given everyone a month or so notice. I have a close friend that wasn't able to be there because she works nights and if she's not working nights she's at school. My husband has Tuesdays off as well as my brother that's a firefighter. Tuesday was the only day that worked for us and those who really wanted to be there made sure they were(mind you it was after most people got off work). The problem I have now is she got on my ass the other day because I didn't have it on a day when she could have been there...now I know I'm not in the wrong here. It is not my job to work around everyone's schedules but, my husband and my baby's uncle were two I wasn't really willing to budge the date for. I wasn't trying to be mean...it wasn't done out of spite. She went on to tell me she was mad another friend that we had been pretty distant from for a little while was there and that made her mad. She jumped around alot about how she will only be here for another year because her boyfriend moved out of state and she's moving there too and she would like to be included in memories such as these. Again I know this is not my problem...she then went on to tell me she views our friendship differently than I do. I stopped talking to her after that...I was in tears. I guess I just need some advice. I'm not sure what to say to her or do now...just hurt and a little stressed out.