I have a really bad allergy to my 14k white gold engagement and wedding ring. It didn't happen immediately, after 2 years I started to notice my skin was red, inflamed, itchy, and cracked underneath. I tried taking off the ring when washing hand and showering, but after a day I had the indents and was inflammed again. After 4 years with this ring, I can't do it. Anybody else experience this, if so what kind of metal (other then platinum) do you recommend?