In need of support and inspiration

Hey y'all. I wanted to post this in the natural/holistic section cause I'm into that and thought I could find some buds. ☺️
So I went to a midwife for a preconception visit and she suggested I lose 20lbs before TTC. (I had gained 30lbs from stress over my job but recently quit. I also have a sprained ankle- so dumb! But I'm tryin!). I know I need to do that to ensure a healthy natural birth for me and my future child but I've just been feeling bummed instead of inspired. I don't have anyone I can really talk to ab it. Help. I need support and inspiration and didn't really know where else to go for it. Thanks friends!!!