Am i overreacting?

Question

I'm extremely upset my so chose to hang with friends instead of me, we had planned to hang out today since today's my last fertile day, and I haven't seen him in 3 days BC we don't live together & I'm in school
In your honest opinion Am I overreacting?

Answer

If you're in school and don't live together, I don't understand why you would be trying to have a baby. But on the other point, if he hasn't seen you in 3 days and would still rather hang with friends, then maybe he's not as into the baby making idea as you are.

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This sounds judgmental, and I don't mean it to be...just to make get you to think on these questions: for what reasons are you trying to have a baby when 1) you're not living together, 2) you're  occupied wit getting an education (which is what you should be doing), and 3) your man doesn't seem wholly invested in the relationship or the idea of having a baby? Have you thought about holding off until everyone is more stable and ready?...

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I'm sorry, but yes i think your overreacting. You are in school trying to get an education, you two don't even love together, why would you be trying to have a baby?

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I didn't mean to post this anno. But yes he does want the baby it was his idea, and I have a week left of school (graduating early with an online class) and we don't live together because the law states I have to be 18 in order to move out (bday is Oct 25th) and it was a whole issue with my dad about moving in with him. (Long story short he called the cops when he found out I was living with him (he's 18) )

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You're not even 18. Jesus Christ. No wonder he wants to hang out with his friends. Fuck sake. When I was 17 the last thing on my mind was trying to have a kid! You have PLENTY of time. Stop trying to rush your life. Parenting is hard. I got pregnant at 19 (granted I was also married) and I lost all my "friends" bc I couldn't party anymore and I couldn't do this or that. Having a kid changes the rest of your life. If I could go back I would've never gotten married at 19 and I probably would've done more to not get pregnant. Don't get me wrong. I ADORE and LOVE my daughter with all my heart and i ant even imagine life without her. She is my everything but at 19, that shit was still hard. Slow your roll, kid.

Am i overreacting?

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