HONESTLY PLEASE MEN ON CHEATING?

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My question is why? 
My story is, my husband and I have been together for 4 years and we have 3 beautiful children. I just found out that he been cheating on me for more than 6 months. Now maybe he dont fucking see it but do everything. I take care of the kids, all of the finances. The cooking, the cleaning. And sorry if I laugh but im the one that begs for sex and he's the one always putting up a fight. 
My question is why men?? Because I am always here when my man got home from work, I paid the bills, I took care of our children, I cooked, I begged for him. Why do you men cheat???? Please do explain... no judgment will be passed. I am sincere on needing the to know as I want to forgive to more FORWARD. Thank you

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Ok so from the man's perspective, as I am. I DONT GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been married to my amazing wife who does everything and has done for 6 beautiful years (married for just over 2 years).

We both window shop (and talk and laugh about it) and enjoy the fact we flirt with each other just as we did in the begining. The sex is great and we are trying for our first child. We are each other's best friend, lover, comforter, punch bag (not litteraly throwing punches)

That's not to say it's all roses because it isn't. IT'S A RELATIONSHIP, NOT A FLING. This is the key line and I belive it's here the problem lies ladies. Relationships are hard, they take work, trust, and communication.

Flings and affairs are simply wanting something new. I have never wanted to cheat, the thought makes me feel sick, but I can see the reasons why it happens. Firstly, women don't like it when men constantly bug them for sex (if it's not happened for while or just because the male has a larger sex drive sometimes, etc), guess what men do like it either. This goes for anything. No one wants the needy person 24/7. Secondly, talk do not nag. I hate to be pestered and so do you so tell me once and let me do it or write it down for me. 3rd, be indipendent. We know you are strong and beautiful so show it.

Now here is the main thing...if you both can't work at the relationship together or it feels like a chore everyday to say I love you, or make a cup of tea for the other, or men to pick up the bloody hover and do the ironing ??? Then find ways to enjoy it. Life is a chore but it doesn't mean you shouldn't enjoy it.

Show you wife or partner you care, put on the radio or some music, grab and dance with them, make them laugh. Plan a date night or bring home a gift. I'm talking small, like a kinder egg if they like chocolate or a macdonalds date to remeber when you first got together and couldn't afford anything else. Keep it alive is what I'm saying and talk. Or seek help form a pro

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Everyone has the capacity to cheat not just men. Take a long hard look at your relationship and try to figure out what went wrong because something did. A relationship is made up of two people, not saying you are to blame. If anything was wrong he should have come to you and talked it out not cheat. Either way try to figure out what was your roll in all of this, if you had any. Not saying you should forgive him or continue with him. But just so you can know, and do things differently in any future relationships.

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Because they are fucking douche bags! No accuses, just that.

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Whilst your husband is a complete asshole and I think he has no right to call you his wife anymore.. It's unfair to just ask "Why do you men cheat?" like we're the only ones who cheat. The question should be "Why do people cheat?".

Having said that, I hope you do what you think is best and best for your kids.

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My most recent ex cheated on me and he lied to the girl he cheated on me with. He told her him and I were in an open relationship (not true) so her and I dumped his loser ass and we became friends.

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Girl I'm in the same boat as you. Was with my husband for 6 years, found out he was dating some 19 year old and he's 27. I paid bills, cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids. Soooo I said fuck you I'm taking the kids and you can have your whore. 6 years I wasted on him and that was it I didn't wanna do it anymore. 6 months single and I'm loving it lol

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Hi first of all I'm a man and my ex wife cheated on me too, so not only man, no to answer your question, I think that is either way, because you are the one who do everything for him and I'm sure you love him, he takes advantage of that meaning he will keep fucking it up knowing you always will be with him, or it could be that if you guys do same thing all the time you have sex he must start getting bored and look out side just to spicy it up, or the worse that you are no longer attracted to him and he just want something different, I'm sorry he cheated on you, you seem to be a good wife but you need to be a bit harder sometimes, wish you luck and hope everything get fixed

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Men and women both cheat. Something missing, unhappiness, attention whoring. Some people might get a rush by lying and using others.

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You should sleep with his brother and film it then send him a video message saying look what i found

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Because they're dicks

HONESTLY PLEASE MEN ON CHEATING?

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