Is there something wrong with me?

Question

With my first son I instantly bonded with him ... 
But it's different with my second.
I love him and I feel Close to him but I don't feel the same bond that I felt with my first ..
Is that normal ?

Answer

It's normal but for me it's the other way round,I don't have the same bond with my first daughter that I now have with my second.My first screamed 10hrs a day and was just such a difficult child with everything,later on I found out she has add and odd and the bond just never got that close anymore.She's 10 now and it's still a struggle,while with my second I just had it instantly.I learned not to beat myself up for it it's just how it is.As long as you take good care of them and love them.Yku cant help how you feel.I think every parent secretly has a favourite but its not something you openly talk about.
I'm sure everything will be ok,don't overthink it too much😊x

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It's normal, it can take awhile to bond with the baby and getting use to be a mom of two.

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It's definitely normal. There is no feeling like becoming a mom for the first time!

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I just feel like I don't hold him as much as I did my first.
 And he's so good ! 
He sleeps all the time I have to wake him so he will eat, and there is so much I have to do that I just let him sleep in his bassinet until I have to wake him to eat.
 I held my first constantly .. But now with two kids i have like Jo time
To clean the house because I'm pumping or taking care of what my oldest needs or trying
To get something made for dinner .. I I wish I didn't feel so guilty about being behind on every thing maybe I'd be able to hold him more

Is there something wrong with me?

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