So frustrated!

I'm ranting here. Feel free to read or ignore, I just need to vent. Okay, so this cycle I decided I wasn't using OPKs to track my ovulation because I was just getting extremely stressed out. I figured BD every other day from the day AF leaves until the day she's due to come back and hopefully we'll be good! Well today is CD14 for me, so for the average woman its peak fertility time, I feel like today of all days is crucial and I come home from work and hubby is DEAD ASLEEP. 😒 I'm losing the mood in my frustration of trying to wake him up, and figuring by the time I get him awake he'll be pissed and not even want to do anything. I'm basically stuck in a lose/lose situation. WHY CAN'T MEN JUST UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF TIMING?! 😩😭