Boyfriend doesn't want baby...

Lauren
I thought he'd come around but he's still upset, shocked and doesn't want it :( he is the most kind and caring guy, he says he wants children just not until he is around 30 (I'm 22, he's 23).. yes it was very unplanned as I was on the pill but I just think this is happened and I don't want to put myself through having an abortion! Is this selfish of me?