Polite way to tell my boyf that he's using too much pressure on my clit?

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Please help, when he fingers me it can feel really good, but sometimes he pushes too hard and I don't know how to tell him to be gentler!

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I always just straight up say "not so hard". Or "softer".

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Say "Ooo I really like when you go softer on the outside like that, drives me freaking wild" or something like that. Strokes his ego and tells him what you like at the same time

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I say something like "I love it when you go nice and gentle" and if he forgets in the moment I'll say something like let's try going nice and slow.

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Do you think if you sucked or squeezed hos penis too hard he would dance around your feelings? He would be like OUCH! LOL

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I tell mine that it hurts & he needs to take it easy. No big deal

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Say that!! When he's fingering you and it starts to hurt say "Thats too much pressure and it hurts me, can you go back to a softer pressure?"

Open, honest and clear communication solves almost everything.

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Just tell him! I had to with my partner last night.. He will appreciate you telling him, they need guidance

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Just be honest and tell him it would feel better if be used less pressure. Sex is best with open communication!

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I just tell him. I just say "you're hurting me" "be gentle" "not so hard" etc. he doesn't get offended/hurt. He just stops doing it so hard. It's not a big deal.

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I just flat say to much or not so hard sometimes guys think more is more even though less can be more lol

Polite way to tell my boyf that he's using too much pressure on my clit?

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