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So I've always known that my husband watches porn and he doesn't know I know. It never bothered me but ever since I got pregnant we have sex like 1-3 times a month 😩 and it bugs me when I see his browser history and it's porn but he won't have sex with me :/ the porn is not the issue just maybe wanting to watch it over having actual sex with me 😕 what should I do ? Should I ask him about it ? I'm just afraid it will start an argument

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I've had the same problem and I've caught my hubby wanking himself off. I spoke to him as it made me feel quite low and at the time we were hardly having sex due to being so tired. He explained that sometimes it's just quicker lol to do a DIY. When he explained it in that way, it made me think the number of times I had done a DIY on myself. 
I would not take it personally. I just think sometimes it's a lot less hard work and men use porn because their senses get hightened via visual stimulus whereas women use all senses during sex.

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My partner and I kinda have this problem every now and then. He only does it himself when he doesn't think I'm in the mood and doesn't want me to have to feel guilty for saying no. :)

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Def ask him about it...it's how u feel ur not saying he can't watch it ur just telling him u need more:)

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I had the exact same issue. I spoke to my oh and he said he was just worried abott hurting the bub but after talking it through we are a lot beter in that area

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I've been in your situation so believe me when I say I know where you're coming from. Let him know you have needs to and you don't mind that he watches porn but just tell him it bothers you that you two haven't been intimate much. Hope things work out!

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