What to do

I have just been feeling very ignored lately. And depressed. I just need someone and every time I try to talk to Him he just kind of brushes it off. Like tonight I expressed that I felt like we weren't communicating like we use to.  Well after I told him that he said "can't I just be home?" I told him I felt like he was here but not here and he proceeded to go on to tumblr and look at porn. I just feel like I'm not good enough any more. Like I don't matter. He doesn't ask me how my day was. He expects food when he gets home and if I won't plate and serve it to him he will find something else. That's what he said tonight. Last night he wouldn't even eat what I cooked and made me make him a separate meal and he only ate half of that. And before that he sat in the room for two hour by himself and had barely talked to me after he got home from work