Is it good sex only if you orgasm?

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Do you categorize "good sex" according to when/if you orgasm? I am ok with not orgasming during sex, and still consider it good.

I crave the act of sex itself and the intimacy with my SO more than an orgasm. I can make myself orgasm a thousand times but only he can make me feel so great, orgasm or not!

He likes to make sure he finishes me off but sometimes I tell him it's fine not to, and I'm just as satisfied

How do you ladies feel?

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Sex is not just about orgasming! Its about making a connection with your partner! So of course you can still have good sex!

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I totally agree! I love making love to my husband and the intimacy it brings us. Plus I love making him feel good/orgasm. It's so hot to me to be able to make him feel so good and the sex feels amazing so I just don't worry about it everytime. (side note I usually only can orgasm if I am on top and we don't always do it that way. Nor would I want us to. But yeah)  just my 2 cents

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My fiancé hasn't made me cum before but I crave and love our sex together. It's amazing and I honestly can't imagine it any other way.

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I never orgasm during intercourse; only orally. The guy I've been casually dating is a physician, so he's very much in tune with my body and it's always good, even though I don't orgasm through intercourse alone.

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My love always makes sure I come first.  He said its important to him, that he makes me feel good too. In return I want to make him feel just as good!

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I love the intimacy with my fiancé i dont care if i orgasm or not sex with him is always amazing 💗

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I orgasm plenty, but sometimes when I'm closer to my period it's harder for me to do so. But that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it, because I really do. My husband always leaves me satisfied.

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It's a rare event that I don't orgasm from sex.

However I enjoy all aspects of sex, it's one of humanity's oldest bonding tools!

Is it good sex only if you orgasm?

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