My new boyfriend gets upset that I don't squirt?

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I know I cum but I just don't squirt. He told me that he made his exs squirt and I'm just not fully letting myself get into it.  I've never been able to. He told me he loves me and wants me to feel good. But after I feel as if I cummed then I make him stop. I don't know why I can't?

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Wow. I'd dump him. If he truly loved you he would know it's incredibly rude and insensitive to tell you that you not squirting gets him upset. What a tool.

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Most women don't squirt. It has nothing to do with fully letting go. Plus, the urge to pee is what it feels like, and its a gush, soooo, personally that's not for me. Just tell him that you physically can't. And if he keeps bringing up the fact that his exes can, tell him he should probably just go fuck them instead.

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It is true that most women don't squirt, and be glad you don't. Its basically like involuntarily peeing, and you wanna clean that up? LOL okay but seriously this boy should not be comparing you to his past sex partners unless he wants to be with them.

If he keeps making you feel bad because you're not squirting, tell him it has to be his fault, he's not doing it right, and then kick him out of bed to be alone with his hand!  Sorry but I refuse to believe that any self respecting woman would let her partner compare her to their ex's in a negative or demeaning way, especially in the most intimate places.

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He's obviously not that good if he can't make you squirt. It's not you, it's him!! Dump him 👎🏻

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You should not feel insecure that you can't squirt, because frankly, a lot of women can't. He should be happy enough that he can at least make you cum, since a lot of women have a hard time doing that with their partners as well.

He needs to stop being selfish and accept and love you for what you CAN do, rather than focusing on what you CAN'T do. Also, you need to tell him how absolutely inappropriate it is for him to bring up his ex-girlfriends, especially in a sexual way. What he did with them and what they were able to do is in the past. If he truly loves you, he will stop comparing you to those girls and focus only on you.

If he can't do this, or can't get over his cocky, entitled attitude, then you don't deserve that and should find someone who won't pressure you, make you feel guilty, or make you feel insecure for not being able to do things that other women can do.

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Tons of women can't. And it's pee anyway.

I personally wouldn't want to, and am very grateful I don't. Hopefully he can get over it and love you regardless.

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Most women cant and that's just a fact that you both have to live with. Google some info on female ejaculation and show it to your bf.

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A) Most girls cant squirt. The sensation feels like you're peeing so chances are he didnt make all of his exes "squirt".. they probably just pissed all over him. Yum.
B) Being compared is a big no-no.
C) Expectations are overrated.
He sounds immature. Just explain these things and shut him up or leave.

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That's terrible! Why does it matter if u orgasm and u enjoy it then it's not about him and what he wants....sounds like an ego issue big time! Sorry girl ide be looking for a better man who actually cares about u

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How old is he? ? Sounds immature

My new boyfriend gets upset that I don't squirt?

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