Is anyone a bigger lady with a thin man?

When my husband (then bf) met I high school, I weighed maybe 165lb. He was roughly 150. Now five years later, I am tipping the damn scale at 210 (not eating right, working nightshift, little exercise besides running the floors at the hospital) I am also very fatigued, have depressed mood and lack motivation. However, my husband is physically fit, weighing 165 lb (max!) and complains about his weight non stop! He's always going on about how fat he's gotten and how lazy he is now a days. I feel like he's directing those statements more toward a me than himself, but he denies it. Does anyone else deal with this too?