Caught of gaurd

I need a roommate rant.

Cousin lives with us, but is leaving hopefully soon because we just don't have room for another baby,our cousin and now his new girlfriend?!

Before I met my husband I loved with my parents , I don't have brothers and sisters so I've never had a roommate or housemate. Well my husband's cousin had kinda always depended on him for everything. Since my hubby and I moved in he had stayed and paid rent to us and even got his life turned around, got s job, a car, I'm really proud that he grew up. I've never see him have a girlfriend and I don't think my husband had ever met any of the girls be had talked about in his past. But lately he is head over heels for this girl and I'm so excited for him. Here is the ranting part.... it's 11pm at night and he brings her over to sleep over. No warning what so ever. .. my house is a mess, I'm caught completely of gaurd and honestly I don't like people I don't know in my house. My husband and my name are on the lease not our cousins. I have a toddler and I'm over protected of her and well my possessions in my house which is Everything except for whatever Is in his room. I've got places to go tomorrow but the hell I'm leaving if she is here all day waiting for his ass to come home from work. .. I wish I could have met her in a different scenario. I feel like I wasnt exactly warm when meeting her. It was surprising. It's already crowded with him living here now he had to bring her over? I want him to be happy and make this work, but it's prolly really rude of me I hope she doesn't come over often. I like my space and there is so little of it already. I just can't wait till he moves out. I told him he had to go mid jan, baby is due Feb 11. Maybe I should let him know sooner. .. ugh. That's my rant about tonight, I an not looking for opinions or anything just ranting because I need an outlet and hubby won't be home till 6am... these hormones..... ugh

I will redeem myself later when I'm not caught off gaurd! Lol.