Am I the only one? Aging, every birthday adds another year.

Question

I'm 23 years old and constantly on anti-wrinkle creams and serums.  I'm so freaked out about aging, now and the future.

Also I feel I'm running out of time for another child!

And nervous my boyfriend will be too old with fertility being 31.

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I think that's a personal issue you need to get over, not trying to sound harsh but aging is a part of life. The anti aging industry is just that, an industry, built to make money off of women who have been brainwashed to think they aren't supposed to age while men are allowed to age and often are deemed more attractive as they age, wrinkles and all. Ever wonder why wrinkle cream isn't advertised for men? Because it's woman who always have to make themselves look better with makeup and all that. If you wanna use that stuff it's fine but reevaluate yourself and why you think you need it.

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He's only 31...you're acting like he's on his death bed, lol. Guys continue to produce sperm their entire lives. They don't have a fertile age limit. The only reason females do is because they are born with a set number of eggs, so once they're all ovulated out, that's it. You're young. You sound like my best friend. He's been using anti aging stuff since his early to mid 20's, and makeup, and worrying about settling down. All it leads to is a bunch of stress over little things and that's the real precursor to...everything. Stress affects fertility, wrinkles, your livelihood, etc.

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I actually did a poll and its a tie 37.5% 
20-25 & 26-30 years old for ages of when women started using anti-aging products.

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Well, wrinkles and aging will happen, guaranteed. So my advice is to invest your life into something that matters and will last, and develop qualities that won't age, that will be attractive forever. Regarding fertility, unless you have a fertility issue, you have like,12 years before you're even marked high-risk for age. And probably a good 20 years of fertility. And men don't really have a biological clock like we do, so he'll be fine. If you're really concerned, freeze some of his semen and some of your eggs.

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Are you for real

Am I the only one? Aging, every birthday adds another year.

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