Man lasts ages ?

Question

Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex he lasts ages, it hurts for me to have sex which I've been going to the doctor to solve, but it just takes him like 40 minutes or even more to finish and sometimes he doesn't? Can someone please help 😔

Answer

Have you seen a doctor about it yet? I've had the same problem with pain during sex and I found out I have vulvodynia.

The things I do to help me and him have sex, is lots of foreplay. for him, I use my hand while I kiss him and say very naughty things such as "do you want to be inside me? How bad.... Mmm... That feels so fucking good" etc. it gets him pretty close to orgasm. At the same he's using a vibrator on my clit to get me super wet. If you do find you have vulvodynia, after you begin treatment you can use the vibe inside your vagina to help relax your muscles. Then when we finally have sex, I find clawing at his back and hitting and licking his neck helps to get him pretty close to orgasm. The dirty talk helps a lot too. Also use a massive amount of lube it helps soooooo much! And it feels super great for the guy. If he's still struggling, try purchasing a cock ring. Also if you're on birth control have sex without condoms. My man lasts too long with condoms and it hurts me a lot.

Man lasts ages ?

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