Baby name - is this too close

Ebony

We are not finding out what we are having - we already have a lil girl called Asha.

Hubby really wants Ryder for boy or girl. My concern is a resonably close friend has an Ashton and a Rylan, im concerned that it maybe too close/simillar to hers.

She was quite ok with Asha (i discussed with her before the birth) but i dont really want to discuss with my her.

Maybe that shows my decesion. Just wondering others thought....