Ok so I need opinions. My husband and i were high school sweethearts. Been together 11 years. I'm currently 28. Before we got married (5 years ago) we talked about when we wanted to have kids. A lot. We agreed by the time we were 24 we would start trying. Now everyone we talk about it he flips or and keeps pushing it off and telling me I'm crazy for keeping bringing it up. His whole family gets on my car as to when we're going to gave kids and it puts me in a position of either putting is all on him at this point or just lying and saying some excuse. It kills me inside and makes me feel like i have no control over my own life and that i feel like I'm never going to have kids. I've always wanted to be a mom and i feel like this is a deal breaker. I don't know what to do and honestly my husband has kay been getting more and more immature. All he does is play video games and drink and watch sports and had violent outbursts where he throws things. I've occasionally gotten in the way and gotten hit. I know he doesn't mean to hurry me and he never remembers it the next morning and thinks I'm just making things up. I work with all men and I'm well aware of their opinions on the matter but i need a women's perspective. Help